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How to improve the quality of relationship with your partner?

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Good and satisfying relationship takes time to develop. It is a the job that needs efforts. You should fulfil your commitments, make compromises to make your partner happy and forgive his/her follies in the process to make the bond stronger.  Falling in Love is easy: Yes, and for some it is a frequent matter. But remaining in love and build a lifelong relationship ? It requires efforts.  The words “I Love You” are not as simple at it sounds. It may be romantic but can be used between best friends. It can be playfully uttered or a logical exclamation between two people with same mindset. It can be both possessive or unselfish, as the case may be.  Feeling about love is an individualistic affair. Two persons loving each other may think differently about love and can still love each other. The style may be different, but love is true.   Love turns into romance which is a biological affair in humans. Romance is triggered by Dopamine pathways. It generates positive ...

How to build a healthy relationship?

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  Relationship is not a constant affair. It has its ups and downs. It takes efforts to keep it alive. It needs more efforts to keep it healthy.  Healthy relationship comes from people with similar mindset and having common goal. When you are honest and have free and open discussions with your partner. This leads you to make and maintain an emotional relation with your partner. You start feeling loved and accepted.  Now you have a partner with whom you can discuss without any fear of conflict. You can keep your interests alive. And you are free to communicate without any inhibition.  Love-how you define it:  Falling in love is easy and may be frequent. But staying in love requires efforts, commitment, compromise, sacrifice and above all honesty. You need to work hard to keep your relationship healthy and long-lasting . You need to have some quality time with each other, that too in short intervals. You look at each other and listen to each other. That ignites y...

Knowing how to Take Your Marital Relationship to the Next Level

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  When you fall in love for the first time, it is usually not with the intention of immediately settling down with your lover for a lifelong marital relationship. This is the time when most lovers are just in the process of exploring each other and nothing more.  Many relationships are short-lived and don’t last longer than a couple of days to a couple of weeks as the lovers don’t find each other compatible.  While some folks find the love of their lives in their very first date, for many others, it becomes a challenge to find the perfect partner.  This raises the question – what is it that you don’t like about your new partner and why have you rejected him/her altogether?  Most millennials won’t bother much about answering this question but most young people in their late twenties would surely ponder over this question more deeply.  It is true that a relationship begins with attraction toward the physical looks on either side. When the individuals meet, th...

Build a healthy and lasting relationship! Read more..

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  It is not difficult to build up a relationship, but it is difficult to build up a healthy relationship that lasts for a long time. But it is also not that difficult if you are committed to the relationship. And you are ready to spend your time and make efforts to make the relationship healthy and to last for ever.  To build a healthy and long-lasting relationship , you will have to make compromises. You have to sacrifice many of your things to adjust the wants and needs of your partner. You have to give up things of your liking and have to adopt to things of your partner’s liking. You may have to give up some of your friends whom your partner does not like. A strong and healthy relationship will shift you from what you are and be what your partner likes.  You have to be honest with your partner. You have to be open about your feelings. You have to openly and effectively communicate about things that concern you, with your partner. You cannot hide anything from her. You...

Unravelling the Different Stages of Love in Your Relationship

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Thoughts of love and the partner of your dreams occupy a very large part of your life whether you have a partner or not. In effect, you are always in love because you keep thinking about it most of the time.   Of course, this state of mind can vary by degrees depending on the individual but just about everybody experiences it for a certain length of time in his/her life.   That's understandable because most folks perceive the success or failure of their lives on the basis of how their love lives have gone.   Here is a look at where and how love begins and how it goes on to evolve through different stages.   Coping with the unbridled passion of physical love    This stage begins quite early in late adolescence and grows through the turbulent teens before entering the millennial stage when you actually begin to identify the partner of your dreams.   At this stage, nothing but physical looks matter and that is quite normal. T...

Understanding the Building Blocks that Lead to a Healthy Relationship

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  When you speak of relationships the first thing that comes to mind is your loved ones especially your spouse.   When you have spent years and decades together, it obviously gets easier but only the two of you know what you had to go through in order to make the relationship work.      It is a subject of intense discussion and debate as well as research and there is a steady supply of suggestions on approaches to make marital relationships work.   Despite that it is well-known that there are scores of marital relationships that have failed and faltered and they all have their reasons of course.   A little online search will show that there is a good number of marriage and relationship blogs offering multiple views and opinions on how best to maintain relationships.   While reading such blogs and other formats of writing enlightens you about the options that are available to you in managing relationships, you must al...

Do you want to keep the relationship healthy? Here is how!

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  What is actually a relationship? Two partners feeling love and affection for each other, isn’t it? They want to stay together and share everything in their lives with each other.  When the relationship begins, everything in this world seems to be heavenly. But unfortunately, this feeling starts waning with time. Partners start complaining and ultimately break away. It is a very much heart-breaking period and it hurts bad.  So, let us find out how we can avoid this break up situation:   Do we share our thoughts with each other freely?  Communication is very important everywhere, but it is very important to maintain a healthy relationship . Communication with the partner must be open and honest. Do not ever try to be smart Alec while talking to your partner. Say about your liking and disliking openly with your partner. Never hide anything. It will make your relationship everlasting.  Empathy is the base of love:  Whenever your partner is sharing h...