How to improve the quality of relationship with your partner?
Good and satisfying relationship takes time to develop. It is a the job that needs efforts. You should fulfil your commitments, make compromises to make your partner happy and forgive his/her follies in the process to make the bond stronger.
Falling in Love is easy:
Yes, and for some it is a frequent matter. But remaining in love and build a lifelong relationship? It requires efforts.
The words “I Love You” are not as simple at it sounds. It may be romantic but can be used between best friends. It can be playfully uttered or a logical exclamation between two people with same mindset. It can be both possessive or unselfish, as the case may be.
Feeling about love is an individualistic affair. Two persons loving each other may think differently about love and can still love each other. The style may be different, but love is true.
Love turns into romance which is a biological affair in humans. Romance is triggered by Dopamine pathways. It generates positive feelings and renewed energy with ecstasy when we fall in love.
But Romance is a up and down matter as far as its intensity is concerned. It needs to be reignited and it requires efforts.
These efforts need the participation of both the partners. They need to bring some changes in romance and do something new. This brings fresh waves of Dopamine into the brains and make feel fresh. It helps in bringing back the excitement that appears to fade away. New experiences need to be shared regularly and it will boost marital happiness.
Romance needs Passion:
Passion drives us to our partners. It makes us committed to our mates. We must be conscious about our passion level. If it is waning, it needs to be boosted up. We must talk freely about our passion level with our partners and do things together to correct the situation.
Sex is a parameter of passion. Some think more the sex more the love and commitment. But physically frequency of sex cannot be judged as the level of romance and passion. Couple having sex once in a week may be more passionate than couple who have sex daily. Sex is bound to go down with age but does it mean that we are not passionate about each other? There are situations where there is less or no sex marriages, may be due to some medical reasons. It can be cured by medical consultation. But sexless marriages are also happy marriages if there is love and romance and passion.
There are ways to improve sex life. But the couple must stay faithful to each other even under these conditions. The Good and satisfying relationship must be protected with efforts by not falling for infidelity. You must be interested in your partner even in these conditions and things are bound to improve.
Partners fight as they have difference of opinions. But it is constructive and must not affect the relation. Fighting does not mean separation resulting into divorce. Whatever partner , there is no decline in love if you know how to de-escalate.
lifelong Relationship is eternal if you are generous and decisive. If you nurture your friends and family. And if you take your love to the next level, beyond physical relations. Sex is as a result of love and not otherwise. Your love for your partner comes from your soul and same thing happens with your partner too.
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