How to have a strong and long-term relationship?

 Healthy and long-term relationship is most probably desired by all of us, and it depends on couple of vital factors in life. Here, both the partners must be honest to each other, have full trust and respect for the other, and communicate openly without any inhibition on every subject. They need not hide anything from the other partner, as they feel free and comfortable in each other’s company. 

Simultaneously, a long and healthy relationship requires compromise on many issues from both the partners. There must not be any authoritarian attitude exercised by both the people, exhibiting power over the other. Both the partners must respect each other’s independence and not intrude in one another’s issues. They must be free to take their own decisions without the fear from any repercussion from the other partner and they should share their decisions and thoughts openly and freely. 

The Four “C”s that hold the relation together: 

Communication:

Open and frank communication among the partner is the adhesive that holds the relation together firmly. If you are not able to say everything to your partner, it means you are not trusting your partner or you are afraid of him/her reacting adversely to your communication. Everything you feel about your life including your requirements and expectations must be communicated to your partner without any fear of being lamented. Any difficult situation in life should be solved with open communication as a couple facing the problem jointly. Partners must be like open bppks to each other in every aspect. 

Compromise:

Long lasting relationship lasts long because of sacrifices both partners make for each other from time to time. Both of them compromise for the other partner’s sake. Relationship is a Give And Take business. You must return the favour you have received from him/her. There may be many issues where you may disagree, but you remain silent and make compromise to fulfil your partner’s wishes. This makes your relationship to last for your entire life. 

Commitment:

Both the partners in a relationship have to be committed to each other. This commitment only makes the relationship to last long. Their commitment to each other helps them to build and share their lives together. Commitments brings dedication and dedication makes partners overlook many of the things they don’t like about each other but still makes an everlasting love bond make beating their hearts together. Commitment also means to remain faithful to each other and what else is needed to have a long lasting relationship? 

Connection: 

Romantic relation is nothing but a strong connection among each other. This connection builds a bond. This bond makes both the partners intimate and make them have common goals and interests in life. This connection brings up a relation that makes both the partners to stay together. The longer the partners stay together, the connection becomes stronger, resulting into a life long-term relationship. 

Love is not always sweet little things. It has its own demands. Love is not by luck. It requires efforts. Partners have to work hard to keep the relation alive and going. 

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